In a recent interview with GQ, actor Ben Affleck has candidly discussed his divorce from singer and actress Jennifer Lopez. Contrary to popular belief, Affleck insists that their split is not filled with scandal or drama. Instead, he describes the truth behind their separation as surprisingly mundane.
Affleck stated, “There’s no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue.” He elaborated that the real reasons for their breakup are far less fascinating than what fans might expect. “The truth is much more quotidian than probably people would believe or would be interesting,” he explained, emphasizing the ordinary nature of their issues.
When asked to elaborate on the truth, Affleck compared it to a couple’s therapy session, suggesting it’s the kind of conversation that would likely bore onlookers. “For one thing, you start going, ‘Okay, clearly this person has got these issues. Clearly they have these issues.’” He also expressed reluctance to share the specifics, citing his feelings of vulnerability and embarrassment.
Affleck clarified that his focus on projects like The Accountant 2 was not the reason for their split, nor did he leave Lopez to rekindle his relationship with ex-wife Jennifer Garner. He emphasized that the reasons are more complex and personal than what outsiders may assume.
Interestingly, Affleck also addressed the impact of Lopez's fame on their relationship. He stated, “You’ve got to own what you knew going into any relationship,” adding that her celebrity status was not the cause of significant issues between them. He noted, “It’s not like you can watch that documentary and go, ‘Oh, now I understand the issues that these two had.’” This comment sheds light on the complexities of relationships in the public eye.
Despite their separation, Affleck maintains that he has “nothing but respect” for Lopez. His remarks reveal a sense of maturity and understanding, highlighting the importance of mutual respect even post-divorce. As he continues to promote his upcoming action film, fans are left wondering how this chapter will influence his future endeavors.