In a surprising turn of events, Rosie O’Donnell has developed a close friendship with Lyle Menendez, who, along with his brother Erik, is serving a life sentence for the infamous double murder of their parents in 1989. This unexpected bond has sparked interest and conversation, particularly as O'Donnell shares insights into their ongoing communication, which she describes as occurring “about two or three times a week.”
O’Donnell's connection with Menendez began in 2022 after she watched a documentary that delved into the complexities of the Menendez brothers' case. The renewed public interest surrounding their story has been fueled by a recent Netflix documentary that sheds light on the allegations of sexual abuse they suffered at the hands of their father. These revelations have reinvigorated discussions about their convictions and the justice system.
At 63, O'Donnell expresses a strong belief that both Lyle and Erik Menendez will one day be released from prison. “I’m sure of it in my mind,” she stated in an exclusive interview with Page Six. “I have to be.” She emphasizes the importance of maintaining hope for those serving life sentences, asserting that love and caring for someone in such grim circumstances requires an unwavering belief in their potential for freedom.
During her visits with Lyle Menendez, O'Donnell observed a unique program where incarcerated individuals train golden retriever dogs to assist children with autism. Inspired by this initiative, Lyle suggested that O'Donnell consider getting a dog for her youngest child, Clay, who is on the autism spectrum. A year later, Clay was matched with a black Labrador mix named Kuma, and O'Donnell reports remarkable changes in her child's demeanor since Kuma's arrival.
According to O'Donnell, the improvements in Clay's behavior have been nothing short of transformative. “The drawings of people with bloody hands and knives have all stopped,” she shares, reflecting on the positive changes she has witnessed. “The laughter has come back, the brightness in their eyes, the ability to go out to restaurants, the ability to stay present and not disappear into themselves, usually because Kuma is coming over and nudging them.” This heartfelt account highlights the profound impact that service animals can have on children with autism.
Impressed by the success of the dog-training program, O'Donnell has taken it upon herself to create a short documentary that showcases the initiative and its effects on families like hers. This project underscores her commitment to raising awareness about autism and the resources available to support children and their families.
O'Donnell has also voiced her frustration over recent comments made by Secretary of the Department of Health and Human Services Robert F. Kennedy Jr. In a controversial speech, Kennedy suggested that children diagnosed with autism would “never pay taxes,” “never hold a job,” and “never go out on a date.” O'Donnell's response was one of indignation, stating, “I hope I never have to see him in person because I don’t feel I would be able to contain my disgust.” Her reaction reflects the sentiments shared by many within the autism community who feel misrepresented and marginalized by such remarks.
Through her friendship with Lyle Menendez and her advocacy for autism awareness, Rosie O’Donnell continues to make a significant impact, demonstrating the power of hope, connection, and the importance of understanding in the face of adversity.
